I was married with two children when I unexpectedly fell in love with a man.Things suddenly shifted inside my head, and I went from thinking I was straight to knowing I am gay.
As I wrote in Finally Out: Letting Go of Living Straight, I know something about breaking rules.So, many men (or boys) pretend to be women (or girls) in order to have more people talk to them.This can be just because they want to chat with someone, or because they have a question they need answered and (for whatever reason) more people will answer a woman's question."I just kept my same photos as a guy, but they still swiped right and started chatting with me," he told me. Heterosexual-identifying men chatting up another guy? But wanted to take things to another level, so I decided to say yes to every man.I swiped right on hundreds of men looking for women — and in the process, what I saw as an intriguing example of sexual fluidity emerged.: Plenty of men swipe right without even looking, not taking the time to examine the photos, much less the bio.